What should sex education be for? You shouldn't shy away from shame!

 

For sex education, many parents do not know how to explain to their children the unspeakable things between the sexes, thinking that sex is shameful, even ugly. For sex, parents who choose to avoid talking about it will not solve the problem, because children will one day face these problems, when the adolescent child appears to have the germination of sex, if do not understand the basic knowledge may have problems. Many cases of sexual assault in youth, as well as unwanted pregnancies, are related to the lack of sexual education in parents and society, and in the face of these problems, necessary sex education is a compulsory course in society and schools.

Both parents and children face sexual anxiety

In fact, parents are sometimes more likely to face anxiety than adolescent children. On the one hand, I hope that my children can understand this common sense and spend the most precious youth in their lives, but on the other hand, as parents and elders do not want to be too explicit and ashamed of the problem, directly explain to the child. At the same time, in this period of children, generally is not very willing to confide in parents, which has caused greater communication hidden dangers. Be aware that communication between parents and children is key to a smooth transition through this period.

There should also be a gender divide in sex education

In Japan, although the corresponding sex education for adolescent students, but for sex education to carry out a one-size-fits-all still has some problems. Japanese sociologist Tanaka says sex education should also be different for children of different genders, rather than using the same perspective to explain these adolescent problems. Because for sex education, it is a matter between the sexes, it is precisely because of the physical and psychological differences between men and women, there is a need for sex education. If the content of sex education is consistent, this is clearly unreasonable.




Therefore, in sex education in secondary schools, boys and girls should be separated. For boys, they should know how to express love and take care of girls, and for girls should learn how to take care of and protect themselves. Another advantage of separating boys from sex education and girls is that it is also psychologically more acceptable. After all, there are differences between men and women, not only physical differences, but also psychological differences. The purpose of sex education is to let everyone learn to love each other on the basis of mutual respect and understanding after they know about each other.

Women's issues in society are also closely related to sex education

For women in Japanese society, there are many sexual problems. Most notably, women are violated and health problems caused by incorrect use of physiological products and lack of knowledge of drugs. Many people think that sex education is really about explaining the relatively basic questions of how life was born. It's not that simple, and the use of physiological supplies and drugs, as well as women's knowledge and coping methods during pregnancy, are part of sex education. In this regard, women deserve more attention than men.

Sex education should cope with the development of the times

For different eras, of course, the content of sex education should also be different. Our times have become more diverse and open, and many of the behaviors that were previously unreasonable are now justified. Therefore, sex education in society should also adapt to the changes and development of the times, with the diversification of society, sex education will gradually cover more children and a wider range. This is also what the times need.