By the time your child is three years old, he or she will be able to start sex education

 

As mentioned in the three principles, sex education must say the name of the sexual organ. So, let's start by saying these three words.

People who can't say anything are embarrassed. And the quickest way to break the stigma is "habit". Recite it thirty times now! While sucking the floor while reading, while washing dishes while reading, while sunbathing while reading, muttering to themselves can also, to form bedtime habits are also good Oh.

After a week, you'll hardly feel embarrassed. A month later, when you talk about the vagina, it's as common as saying "eggs and spoons" (laughs).

In our house, I would say to my daughter who is taking a bath, "You have to clean in the order of the urethra, vagina, and anus." We are used to each other's words "vagina", and the children know that women have three holes in their bodies, and they are different.

Why do I wish you could practice to the point where you can say it?

Because when it comes to "sexual behavior", you can continue the next topics -- "You were born in such a loving situation!" "Life matters" "I don't want you to be the victim or perpetrator of a sexual crime." Our love for our children and our desire to protect them can be conveyed beyond the word "sex".

Sex education begins at the age of three So, specifically, how old are you going to start sex education?

I think it should be done at an age where you can be generous about sex and the love of your parents -- "three to ten years old."

Three to ten years old, but also the most favorite "urination, urine," age! The best evidence is that "The Stool StoryBook" will become popular and the animated "Little Crayon" will be a 25-year-old longevity show.

Recently, the young children are very popular between the "ah- ah-good bread superman is sausage, meatballs, sushi bean skin" adaptation of the song! Children in the lower grades of elementary school changed their key lines to "Skinning is a chicken warrior!" (Laughter)

It may seem like a big collection of yellow jokes, but children of this age simply find it funny, not obscene at all.

Between the ages of three and five, 80% of children ask their parents questions about "the origin of life", that is, "How can a child be born?" This one-size-fits-all problem.

On the other hand, after the age of ten, children's mentality has also grown, no longer feel that "urination, urine," is very interesting. The habit of bathing together, sleeping together, and going out together slowly disappears, and the chances of being able to talk about sex are greatly reduced. Because three to ten years old is the heyday of yellow jokes, it's more important to use your power to talk about sex.

From the stage of development studied by Freud, founder of psychoanalysis, three to ten years old is also sex education because of it.

According to Freud's thesis, the oral period of pleasure obtained from breast milk, etc., enters the period in early childhood. period refers to the period when a sense of achievement is obtained through excretion and can be carried out smoothly in stool training. Then from kindergarten to primary school is the "sex period", during which boys will be aware of the presence of chickens, and girls will notice that they do not. Boys will touch their chicks, or stretch their foreskins, showing an interest in their reproductive organs. Often the little boy's mother comes up to me and discusses, "My kids have been touching chicks..."

In the children's own body is very interested in the period, sex period, mothers should be more concerned!

"What happens to chickens when they pee?" "After going to the toilet, wipe your little sister (the common nickname for female genitalia) clean. "Usually hide chickens and ass in your panties. Because this is an important part, it can only be exposed when you go to the toilet. "You have to wash important parts of yourself.